What should I do? : a continuation of the sony-music board
Yes, so he called last night. We talked for an hour. He is like, kinda, um, not moral, or, not mature I guess. Not that any of this is bad, but at his age it is. He is 15 and when he was 14 he did coke, and went to rehab for it. He recovered, but still drinks A LOT...he had a hangover today. He lost his virginity when he was 14. He NEVER does his homework, and only gets by with like, the bare minimum. HE IS NICE THOUGH!!! And cute, and that is all that matters right? RIGHT? Anyway, he explained the whole like 15 gay poeple at our school, and how the gay community works. Um...it is scary! Well, should I be like, "You are to much of a bad-ass for me" or not anything, and see if I can change his ways. Nothing has hurt me yet, but if he tries anything, there is gonna be some bitch slappin' goin' on. That is all, I LOVE YOU MY POEPLE FROM THE SONY BOARD!!!! Precious

i know i'm not from the sony board, but i'd be careful if i were you hun.

I'd agree. Make sure you understand that you can't change anyone. I can't stress that enough.

and if you go in with the hopes of changing someone, you are entering the realm of missionary dating and that's BAD!

I know, but I am not aloud to date for like 2 years, so he isn't a boyfriend. I don't get him though. He came to school with a hangover today...I mean, is he stupid? I don't know, but I tried caling him now, and it was the answering machine...I hope he wasn't getting drunk again! Precious

ah i remember my teenage years. no offense, but i don't want to go back! :wink:

I totally agree, I don't want to be in them now. I called his cell phone now, and his mom answered. She said he wasn't there, and she sounded DRUNK!!!! Her words were slurred and all jumbled, and now I wonder where the guy (Drew) is...especially this late (almost 10). I worry, Precious

Precious, I found you!!! Ok, there has been ALL GOOD advice given here. I agree with every word so far. Please be careful with this one. Know that you can be a "friend" but you don't need to SAVE him (being god). He obviously comes from a troubled background and that's sad but you also have to think of yourself. YOU are number one. I'm a little worried for you, he is so young and has so many negative issues surrounding him. What I would do is, be a gardner (seed-planter) BUT don't be the tree. Think about that. JAL

What I would do is, be a gardner (seed-planter) BUT don't be the tree. :? WHAT? Man, I was tierd last night! I think what I was trying to say was, be a friend to him (planting seeds, giving advice) but don't lose yourself in the process (being a tree, something you are NOT). I dunno, I was trying to be all smart and stuff.