thanks precious for your support and understanding, i'll let her know.

What does my post have to do with that???? OK, whatever... Precious

That is OK. Today I ahve been good. I stayed calm the WHOLE day and just went away to whereevr my mind wanted when i didn't have to focus. I was hoping to find out who I was in my past life since you said I sound like i have been reincarneted or whatever. Now my friends think I am crazy...I don't like them, I hate my life, and I want out. I feel very zen. I did up until last period when we had a science quiz. I pulled out my notes ready to use them on the quiz, and I read the first question. It didn't sound familiar at all, and then I realized I did the wrong notes! HOW EMBARRASING!!! I had to go to the teach and tell her, she just looked at me and smiled. Now I have to do a make up quiz...POOP!!!! stupidity..as you say JAL, I am air I think is what you said. Is that right? Precious

I take a lot of things to heart though, so that is why I am very dramatic in what I say. My friends think I am twisted anyway. I have always been the one with the head and the wiseness, but after I said I wasn't Catholic anymore and going spiritual, they acted like I was a big freak. THEY DON'T EVEN BELIEVE IN GOD!!! Why would they judge me, when they don't even know barely anything about life? There biggest problems are what boyfriend dummped me even though they were only going out for 2 days. grrrr, there is just to much, and I feel overwhelmed. that is why I want out. I feel so close to God now, and I just want him to take me now, so I don't have to go through life or anything, just go to Him when I am at my best so far. oy, Precious

Oooh Oooh. I have my 2 cents. I have never had a roomate for reasons like this but I do have a live in fiance (he just propsed Friday! Best boy in the world!) but he leaves out EVERYTHING!!! Even the damn milk and then I don't come home until later and I have to throw it out!! I tell him he needs to pick up more but I am kind of calling the kettle black because I leave things out too (towels and bras on the bedroom floor). Ya see, my parents taught me how to pick up. I had to do or I would be in trouble. His parents never made him pick up after himself. So I think that my mentality os I don;t have to aymore cause I don't like with the folks and his mentality id he just never learned to do it. What we do is clean trhe place beautifully on Sunday and let it all go to hell during the week and the cicle repeats itself. But I sure am in love :D

Oh my gosh, I have roommate horror stories up the wall. My first two years of school I lived in a tiny dorm room with two other girls. My sophomore year, one of them kept stealing stuff (mostly from my other roomate). I was glad to get out of that. But then I moved into an apartment with two other girls and the one was a complete and total slob. She left everything out, she left CLUMPS OF HAIR in the shower, around the drain that you had to clean out because otherwise the water just filled up around your feet, she left flowers in vases long after they died and started to rot in the the water and oh my gosh that is the most horrible smell! Then I lost it around halloween when she bought pumpkins and left them sitting on our kitchen counter, covered in dirt. I took them outside and started cleaning them, because I am obsessive-compulsive (not too much, but I have been diagnosed with a mild case of it) and I couldn't stand having DIRT in our kitchen. Like, BIG PILES of it. So my senior year I just moved back into the dorms in a single room. And now I'm married and my husband is very good about cleaning up after himself (as much as guys can be) :wink:

Oh, and goodsolution, congrats on the proposal!! (I just got married in April, very exciting)

Of course you're not crazy. i also live with other ppl (not in the same bedroom, but in the same house) and i get so upset sometimes! I'm not obsessed with cleaning but even if i have my bedroom untidy ,that's my problem. but i will not leave any other part of the house unclean. i mean, even if u used to live with your parents, u'll get independent and start disliking certain things, be attentive to other things, u'll start being more organised etc. It's just sth that happens spontaneously/ naturally. we should respect others' space.we're not living with our parents anymore and not everyone has to put up with us.